It’s Not About the Wedding”: Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell Celebrate 40 Years of ‘Dating’

Hollywood is an unlikely place for enduring relationships in an industry known for fleeting romances. According to 2017 US Census data, A-list celebrities face an average divorce rate of 52%, which is twice as high as that of the general population.

However, defying the odds, beloved celebrity couple Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell have demonstrated that love can withstand the test of time. Their remarkable journey has spanned 40 years, yet they have never officially tied the knot.

For Hawn and Russell, the essence lies not in marriage but in the enduring bond between two individuals. Hawn emphasized to People that “It’s not about the marriage. It’s about the people, the relationship, and the will to stay together.” Russell echoed this sentiment, stating that a marriage certificate wouldn’t create anything they didn’t already have.

Despite their unconventional approach to commitment, visual evidence suggests that Hawn and Russell thoroughly enjoy their enduring connection.

Hollywood veterans Goldie Hawn, 74, and Kurt Russell, 69, who first captivated audiences with their on-screen chemistry in the 1987 romantic comedy “Overboard,” began their real-life love story while filming “Swing Shift” in 1983. Remarkably, they have remained inseparable ever since.

Their family, including son Wyatt, 34, and children from previous marriages, Russell’s son Boston, and Hawn’s offspring, actors Kate, 41, and Oliver Hudson, 44, forms a close-knit unit. The children affectionately refer to Russell as “Pa.”

The couple attributes their happiness to the strength of their family bonds. Russell expressed immense pride in their kids and grandchildren, emphasizing, “I look at our kids and grandchildren, and there’s nothing in the world that could make me as proud as I am of all of them.”

Although the couple has never officially married, their playful and lighthearted moments are well-documented. However, they adopt a more serious approach when it comes to health. Russell, in a Parade cover story, acknowledged Hawn’s influence on maintaining a healthy lifestyle, crediting her for preventing him from potentially weighing 300 pounds.

In addition to their pursuits, Hawn is dedicated to promoting well-being through the Goldie Hawn Foundation and its MindUP program, which focuses on helping children with stress management and emotional well-being.

Bored Panda consulted Lise Deguire, a clinical psychologist and author, to gain insights into their enduring relationship. Deguire noted that Hawn and Russell exemplify commitment driven by love and devotion rather than legal ties. While acknowledging that the couple likely faced challenges, Deguire observed that their connection still thrives.

Discussing the traditional significance of marriage, Deguire pointed out the evolving societal views on divorce and the changing dynamics of committed relationships. She noted that Goldie and Kurt’s model of heartfelt commitment, devoid of legal obligations, stands out.

As Christmas approaches, the couple plans to celebrate at their Colorado ranch, engaging in festive activities like cooking, skiing, and reading “The Night Before Christmas.” Their new film, “The Christmas Chronicles: Part Two,” hopes to bring comfort to those facing challenges amid the global pandemic.

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In a recent interview with People, Hawn revealed that, even after all these years, Russell had made her feel beautiful uniquely, emphasizing the enduring charm that defined their decades-long romance.